H That brings me on to something else regarding Shirley’s health, she says she gets a cough when she gets anxious. Where does that come from? What causes that? O The anxiety began when she married in 1974. The knowledge that all was not correct was there at the beginning and she did not listen to her gut feeling. H Was this her first husband Alan? O No the second. H Because he was the alcolholic? O Yes, she did not listen to what her soul was telling her and it was the anxiety of the soul that was manifesting itself and this combined with other things such as the pollution of the body and it surfaces, for it is not cleared. H Because Shirley has been told that it was due to passive smoking. O Well that is part of it, is it not? H So what can we do to help Shirley? O It is fading. Yes it is definitely fading away and it is a question of knowing that all is well and not to be anxious. Shall we say how her actions affect others for she is aware that her actions then, adversely affected others. And so there is guilt attached to that, so it is not leaving. H Ok so this is going back to her second husband and there is guilt there? So how can we help Shirley get rid of that guilt which you are saying is the root cause of the cough? O Yes, if she can understand that when actions have an adverse affect, remember that the intention behind those actions were not malevelant, they were acted in what was thought to be the best interest of all concerned. So actions taken where there is no ill intent, but still have an adverse affect, there should not be any guilt attached to that. It is all experience and learning from it. When actions taken are intended to hurt deliberately, set in that manner, then guilt can be attached to it because it was knowingly done to hurt. So it’s distinguising between the two.
H OK so what does she need to do to get rid of that root cause? O If she can realise that it was all part of the bigger plan, set to enable others things to take place. It’s like a web. Various actions affect the actions of others and so it spreads like weaving a web. If there can be acceptance that the lives of those affected, the plan was set in action before she arrived and that means that she is simply part of the overall plan and much learning has taken place from all aspects and some are still to understand that.
To be continued ………..